Sara Cunningham, of Oklahoma City, Says she will stand in for People of the LGBTQ who's parents won't show up because they don't support their children. Sara Cunningham also says she will be there if the child does not have parents. she attends peoples weddings as a "Stand in mom". she helps prepare the wedding and helps the couple get suits and (or) dresses, she sets up the decorations with the couple and she even walks down the isle with the person who needs a mom there